Mommies should know this.

Assalamualaikum . . . . . . 

This is just general info yang I guess, every mom should know. Yes, we're can;t be perfect for them. I means for our kids. But we can try our best to be a good mom.

Apa yang perlu untuk describe diri as good mom or bad mom. Ada ke ibu2 or mommies yang nak jadi bad mom? Takde kan.

No heart feeling. This is what i think we must have. Based on pembacaan.

1. Eat. Trained our kids to be a healthy eater.
- Maybe boleh start dengan prepare makanan sendiri. Avoid junk food yang sometimes je boleh. 

2. Motherhood is a learning process.
Its OK to make mistakes. Learn from mistakes. Kan?

3. Biarkan anak close dengan papa
Yes, biarkan je. Anak yang rapat dengan ayah, akan jadikan dia lebih kuat and berani hadapi hari akan datang. Papa is hasya's bf . Love at first sight. :)

4. Have family dinner.
Yes, eat together. It will tighten the relation ships. As me, hasya akan makan dulu. and masa we ols tengah lunch/dinner, dia akan sit together with us.

5. Saying No can sometimes be OK.
Kadang2 okay la. Utk train dia jadi more patient.

6. Apology accepted
Yes. semua orang buat silap. Just say sorry. Even to your babies. Me too. kadang2 say ' mummy sorry hasya', and dia like, 'its okay mummy'. Ouuccchhhhh...

7. Yes. Dont feel guilty for working.
Its naturally came, jangan feel guilty. Kena belajar. This is lifeeeee

8. Happy marriage means happy family.
Try to put aside all masalah bila bersama anak and family. Yes, seriously. Its worth it.

9. Motherhood is not a competitive sport.
Its about feeling. Tanggungjawab. Not 'anak kau pandai apa? Anak aku kannnnn'... Bukan nya nak berlawan, tapi support. Its amanah, tanggungjawab. Kalau dah nak berlawan, tak ke stress jadinya. hahaha.

10. Lead by example.
Yes, ibu ayah example terbaik untuk anak2. kadang2 nak terluah rasa marah pada suami, sila telan semula. Jangan tunjuk depan anak. Why not, mengaji bawak anak sekali . Even dapat baca satu page sahaja, sebab kena kacau. Sokayyy..... 


Mommies, jangan stress2 okay. U can do well. Its all about family. Future. Happy. Insyaallah, berbahagia hingga ke syurga.

Ammmiinnnnnn